In todays society there is this image of the perfect woman and the perfect men. Woman have to be skinny with a beautiful face that they can only get by putting a lot of make up. They are expected to have the perfect job and to take care of the household at the same time. They have to go to the gym almost everyday and eat really healthy. They can't gain any weight because that's really bad in society. Men have to be muscular and handsome. They also have to have a really good job, really good car and perfect clothes. If you're not perfect in front of society then they will judge you so much that it's going to make you feel bad about yourself. In reality most women are not skinny and have the perfect body and some of them don't even have time to put make up on because they have a lot of things to do. Not all men are going to have muscular bodies and a perfect job. They don't have time to go to the gym because they have to work to support their family. Nobody can perfect because everyone has their flaws no matte how hard they try to be perfect they won't reach it. The only thing left is to be real with yourself and everybody else because that's what really counts.
There is going to be a lot of times that you're going to expect something to happen or expect someone to do something for you. You just want to happen so bad that you think about it all the time and you can't get it out of your head. It can be the smallest thing like expecting to get a good grade in your test but in the end you don't get the grade you expected so that makes you disappointed. You can also expect someone to do something for you that we've been waiting for the longest time and that's all you've been thinking about but in the end it never happen and it made you feel really bad. That's why is always good to not expect things because in the end, you never know what could happen. You will never tell if will actually get a good grade in a test, no matter how bad you think you are, it's always better to just wait for the results. Being disappointed is really bad feeling specially when you really wanted something and in the end, you didn't get it. So that's why its better to not expect things from anything or any one so that way you don't feel disappointed.
When something bad happens you do have those three choices. if you let it define you then it's going to change the way you think and your personality. Since your now affected by it then you will fight to not let it happen again. If you let it destroy you, then it's going to take a long time to recover. You may not recover at all from it. Letting bad things destroy you is not a good thing because you have to be strong and take all the bad things and try to make them into good things. If you let it strengthen you, then its going to make you a better peron in everything. Being a strong person then when something bad happens then you'll have all the courage need to confront it and fight it until you win. Letting something bad define you, it will change you for the rest of your life. Letting it destroy you will only make you weaker and more vulnerable to other bad things. Being strong will help you over come any other bad things that happen in your life and you will overcome it faster.
"I have many problems in my life. But My lips don't know that. They always smile" -Charlie Chaplin10/28/2014 There's a lot of problems in our lives that we sometimes forget to smile. We are so caught up with our problems and trying to fix everything doesn't leave us time to smile, to laugh at things. Smiling is really important because it makes you feel better when something is wrong. It can also make other people's day just by smiling at them and they smile back. We are always going to have problems in our lives, no matter how small or how little they are. You always have to deal with them no matter how hard you try to not have any problems. That's why it is always important to smile at everything that life gives us. No matter if they are good things or bad things. Don't approach things in a bad mood because they were still going to happen anyway. So smile through your problems and it will make it so much better. While people are growing, they are also changing too. Their likes and dislikes change, they become more mature and have bigger problems as before. When you were a little kid, you liked to play with toys and play with friends. You didn't have worry about any serious things, maybe juts doing your homework and doing chores. After time past by and you started getting into high school, there was a lot more things to worry about, like; getting really good grades to graduate and go into college. Having a job and trying to do all your homework at time same time. Some of you even having to move out and be independent right when you turn 18. After high school you have to worry about getting into college and how you're going to pay all your classes. Getting the job you wanted after that and having to worry about not having enough money. There's going to be a lot of changes in your life and some of them might be good and some of them might be bad. Like the quotes says, leave the old you in the past because you can't change that anymore, instead worry about the future and focus on changing things then.
Life is not always going to be perfect without problems. There is always going to be something that is going to stress you out. But no matter how bad the problem is, you should always make something good out of it. There might also be people giving you problems or wishing the worst for you. The best thing to do is to not pay attention and make good things from the problems and let everyone wonder how you did it. You might be having the worst day of your life or you feel like there is no solution to a problem. There is always going to be a solution to the problem no matter how bad it is and no matter how long it takes. Turn all the bad things into good things and everything will be so much better and you’re going to make everyone wonder how you did it.
People will alwas try and hurt you in any way they can. Especially if those people don't like you and they wish the worst for you. No matter how hard you try to be nice to everyone and make everyone like you, there is always going to be someone that has a reason to hate you. They may not know you at all and still hate you just because they feel like it. It might make you feel bad because people may not like your or may hurt you in any way, but you shouldn't care about what they think. It's your life and you can choose to live it how ever you feel like it and no one can interfere and change it. Another thing is to not harm and judge others because you wouldn't want that to happen to you. You should feel good or happy if someone else is in pain. Instead you should help them out and be there for them. The world would be a better place if everyone helped everone and not judge and hurt other people. Being happy when someone else is in pain is the worst thing to do.
Having control of your own life, in my opinion is one of the most important things that human could have. Being able to write your own story without letting anyone change that for you is having the power over yourself. There's a lot of people in the world that are being controlled and can't do what they like to do. They have to follow all the rules and if they don't, they can have really bad consequences. For example; in school there's a lot of people that are being bullied and they let that control their life. They are scared every day they have to go to school. They have suicidal thoughts because sometimes they can't take it. It's incredible how one person can control someone's life so bad that they make them kill themselves. Having courage and standing up for what one person believes is going to let you enjoy and live life the way you want to live it and not the way others want you to live it. Write your own story and don't anyone else write it for you.
People in these days want to accomplish a lot of things and be able to do what they like. Sometimes they can't let go of other things and that stops them from accomplishing what they want. How I understand the quotes is that you have to let go of something in order to do better and to find other things that you may like more. This can also refer to moving on from something sad that happen in your life, or the person that you love left you. Being stuck in that tragic moment in your life is going to stop you from better things that can actually make you feel better. Moving on from things that just don't help your well-being and the ability to be someone better is going to help you a lot and you will appreciate it in the end,
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